Sunday, October 7, 2012

Pay it forward.. :)

mood: relaxed 
craving: tomorrow :) seeing my dad and taking him to lunch, he lives 30 min away from us now and we hardly see him. I can't wait to hug him and feel safe in his arms.. :) 

A great big SALAM ALYKOM AND HELLO to all my followers out there. I missed y'all. :)  I've been so busy getting my life in order ( a great thing) I just haven't had any time to get on the net. Aside from my busy life, I'm GREAT! Thank God. How's everyone doing? I hope y'all are great and keeping your faith high. I really miss writing, it's such a great therapy for me. In these 4 months a lot happened to me and I'm in such a good place in my life now. Alhamdulilah.

 My dad had four strokes in one week in June and I've given my all to helping him recover. May God guide him, ameen..

To all the haters sending me hate mail out there: please stop hating, it's such a waste of energy and time. Be happy and live life.

“There is no such thing as can’t.” Christopher Reeve

It's funny I've been divorced for over 2 yrs and I'm happy I didn't fall into the high percentage of getting married again after my divorce. I truly believe that you should be single for a while after a divorced. You should find yourself. How can someone get married so fast after a divorce? Well, this is my opinion  :) I love being single, I get to spend a lot of time with my kids and not have to worry about having to answer to anyone. But, with that said, I ask Allah to bring someone in my life who will be with me for the rest of my life and is a good Muslim and completes my life. Ameen

I've done stuff in these 4 months that I've never done in my life. Wow, it feels great!!! It feels great to be so independent and to take care of my kids with no one's help! It feels awesome. You single mamas out there, y'all can do it! If I could, y'all could.. :) NO worries, leave everything with Allah and do what you can to get ahead and have faith. Faith moves mountains. I have an amazing group of friends (sisters) here and they have really been there for me and of course my sisters (blood sisters) have been totally awesome. I can't thank them enough! My kids and I now live in our own place and I work and I'm loving every single bit of the (ease part of my life now). Verily with every hardship, comes ease. Yeahhhhh... It's all about FAITH & patience... :) Ok, ok. I'll stop now, I'm sure y'all are bored listening to me. I just wanted to up date y'all and give y'all some inspiration and love. Now, on to my short and sweet entry.

Today, give a stranger one of your smiles. It might
be the only sunshine he sees all day.

Have y'all every paid it forward? Meaning, given to people for the sake of God? Well, all I can say is it's awesome. It all started 4 months ago, I met this one AMAZING person and let me tell you, I will continue to pray for her the rest of my life and will never forget her. She came into my life at a great time and since then, I have take all her advice and moved ahead in my life and not looking back. I started practicing what she taught me and all I can say is, WOW! pay it forward..

The expression "pay it forward" is used to describe the concept of asking the beneficiary of a good deed to repay it to others instead of to the original benefactor.

Do something nice for someone you don't know (or don't know very well). It should be something significant, and not for a person from whom you expect a good deed -- or anything at all, for that matter -- in return.

I won't tell y'all what I've done, I feel that's between me and God. But, all I can say is,  Pay it forward and do it solely for the sake of God. I've been doing this and the blessings I've gotten has totally filled my world with ease and more love than I have ever had in my life. Thank you God for everything you bring in my life. I look back on my life and I've had such an amazing life and I'm blessed and I never regret one thing I've done. God put everything in my life for a reason and I embrace it and hold it next to my heart. 

“Together we can change the world, one good deed at a time.”

final whisper; “Sail beyond the horizon; fly higher than you ever thought possible; magnify your existence by helping others; be kind to people and animals of all shapes and sizes; be true to what you value most; shine your light on the world; and be the person you were born to be.”


Asmaa said...

Wa Alaikum Salam wa rahmatullah sister,

MashaAllah may Allah continue to bless you sister and jazakAllah Khair for the update and advice about doing good for others

aynzan said...

You sound like a great warrior..God bless :)

UmmRania said...

Assalamu Alaikum, so good to hear from you, I sent you an email a while ago and its nice to see you are doing so well. I think about you often and hope you are all ok.

Aisha said...

Finally .Nice to have you back!! Missed your post.Hope you dad gets well soon!
Peace and Love

Miss Zai said...


Greetings from Malaysia.
Hi, I'm a new follower. Alhamdulillah..I found an inspiring blog. I was born Muslim yet my knowledge in Islam is still shallow. But I'm thankful because Allah gives me strength to practice Islam. May Allah keep us on the straight path. Ameen.

Texan after UAE said...

wa alykom salam sisters, I'm getting ready to go into work now, but I've made time to come read my lovely comments. mashallah. May Allah reward y'all and keep y'all safe ameen

Thanks for the emails and the love, it's truly appreciated. Um Rania, I will get back to you. Do you have a iphone? If so, please let's imessage. :) it's free and nice to keep in touch... I love you sisters!!!! ameen to the duas.. stay blessed and safe... :) :) :) off to work... may Allah help us always and give us nothing but good in this life and pass his tests ameen


UmmRania said...

No i dont have an iphone, but I still want to hear from you!

Anonymous said...

Sis, I have hiatus from reading blogs for almost 1 year and I didn't know you're now divorced =/

I feel so bad because I should have always read your blog and give positive comments to you when you're in a bad state.. =/

So sorry.. i'm not sure if you could remembered me but you used to give me positive comments on my bliog few years ago.. You are such a nice, strong lady... =)

Lisa Marie said...

wa Alaikum asSalaam wa Ramatullahi wa Barakatuh sis :) MashaAllah wa Alhamdulilah I am thrilled to hear you all are doing so well! Ameen to the dua. I can relate to being a single mother. It is a very rewarding experience, plus as you said, it really helps you find yourself. InshaAllah Allah sends you the perfect husband for you when the time is right <3 I can speak from experience the wait is definitely worth it. Mabrook! InshaAllah your dad is healing well. My mom had 2 strokes so I can somewhat relate to that....

Onelovely Muslimah said...

assalamualaikum wa rahmatulahi wa barakatu!
masha'Allah sis ur alive!!! was wondering what happened to you and thought you had abandoned your blog altogether!!!!

Alhamdulilah for everything and that you are doing good .

please do visit and follow me @
have a great day insha'Allah!

*cHaRisMa* said...

Assalamu Alaikum

I don't know if you remember me :P but you commented on my blog a looong time ago, you were linked to it from Dali (the cuban sister). I was wondering if you were still in contact with her?? I lost contact and have been trying to figure out where she went! Please let me know how she is doing if you still talk to her inshallah (: jazaki allahu khair

Fayaz Pasha said...

Mashallah! A very inspiring post indeed. Yes, whatever we want in life, we need to give that first. Whether it is love, compassion, joy, anything that we desire, we ought to give out and Allah's blesses us with abundance.

Keep up the good write.

Here's to share some poems on my blog:

Hope you enjoy!

Adrien Brody said...

Assalamu Alaikum
I'm a new follower.
Thanks a lot for sharing. You have done a brilliant job.

Haitham Jafar said...

Hello sis,

It has been a while u haven`t posted!
Hope all is well.

Farah said...

Assalamualaykum Sis!! MashaAllah I love the idea of Pay it Forward, and I think it is very inspiring. I watched the movie and promised myself to do good gestures, big or small daily in order to make someone's life better inshaAllah. It isnt as easy as it seems, but it is definitely worth trying! Hehe. Thank you for this inspirational post!!


Online Koran said...

Nice advice given to all for helping others. quran skype

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